Love her so much....
it really hurts me each time we caught on a fight...
I really love her so much, so damn much since the day that we get together...
I know that girls are sensitives about these things, especially when it comes to jealousy...
recently, again, she sulk because she thinks i'm cheatin' on her...
somehow, it really hurts me when she thinks like that...
Does she don't believe me anymore??
Does it makes me a bad person to have friends @ girl friends in this case ??(and I do REALLY mean GIRL FRIENDS guys...)
When things like this happen again and again and again, it really pushes you down...
especially when the exam is just around the corner...
(Sigh...)
Is it true? Do what other people say that Love is just 'hangat2 pd mulenyer shj'??
What happens after that??
Guys could ya' help me out here.... share with me some of your thoughts.... and gurls, could ya' share with me the insight heart of a girl....
Thanks A Lot ya' all....
PS: I really do love her so much....
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13 comments:
herm ..
wish u good lark with ur GF ..
women nie mmg sensitive ..
or maybe .. do smething yg buat she will trust u the most ..
and off course la .. spend more time with her rather than other girls .. for sure la dier akan jeles ..
jgn luper hamek ati .. chocolate .. roses .. :P
hmmmm...
i think,spent more time with her is the best..
g la funfair k, naik rollercoaster same2 k....
n show that u are totally crazy in love with her!
i never been in love with any girls so far...but i guess that is what we call love. at this stage both of you dalam proses mengenali..semakin lama hubungan semakin kite kenal pasangan kite..and if you really love each other both of have to try really hard to accept each other
Ok,
Here's my sincere opinion (as a girl obviously @.@).
Spending more times with her probably would do, but i think in this case it's more about "having loads of girlfriends". Yeah in this context "Girl Friends".
I can totally understand how she felt, even me myself pun mesti tak senang hati if my bf layan pompuan layan, equally nice + gentle mcm mane die layan me.
As in, I won't feel that I'm special to him anymore. Because I think what girls always wanted from a guy (special guy) is undivided attention, that only she, only, can have it from him. Not other normal girl friends.
Btw, on "the excitement of love is only at the beginning".. Hmmmm, I dunno maself since I've no experience (at all) about long term relationship...
BUT, I've seen many examples, like my own sisters, yang couple time sekolah, and besar2 kawen. But they always have problems + fights in the process before getting married too.
And alsooooo, a teacher who's close to me once said, "Kalau dah kawen nanti, kamu "honeymoon" (i.e. rase bestnye kawen) untuk 6 bulan pertama je, lepas dari tu masing2 dah bosan + tade feeling"
But hmmm, I dunno laaa... Maybe that's her experience, but I've seen few couples though, yang even dah anak 2-3 orang pun still romantik lagi..
So I surmised it actually depends on the person individually. It's all depend on you guys, to "intensify" that excitement of love and stuff. (Bunyi mcm ape plak) Hahaha ;P
Apepun, jgn buat mende luar dari syariat agame sudah.
N n n.. you really shouldn't felt hurt when she thinks that you're cheating on her.. Kalau 2-2 sulking susah la kan? So one side mesti mengalah.. In a way, if she thinks like that, that shows + proves that she cares + loves you sooooo much. And you on the other hand, should be proud + happy instead of tension sekali.
Go cheer her up... And ermmm..
To fall in love is easy, but to stay in love is what that counts.
;)
Cheers my friend. Send my regards to her.
Salam dari melting frozen-tundra. LOL.
huaaaaa...
anem, ur like writting a short essay for me.... TQ2!!
but anyway, i reaaaaaallly apprediate it a lot... It helps me a bit in understanding 'you girls'...
I guess, Men are really from mars and Women from venus...
Both are completely different... But, in a way, they completes each other...
right??
er, i havent been in an a relationship but erm my two cents are:
let her read this post. because i think its sweet.
syed,
leh tak syed email kan kat abg sham gmbr masa kat ceria ria ppmq tu..you know email add kan? thnx..:)
that's so sweet.....
i totally agree with the other comments.....
no further comment from me here, coz it'll be just between u n me..... :-)
syed...since it's a common thing for those who r in love, juz get thru all those things...understanding is everything...sumtimes u can't defeat jealousy...it's there...between u n her...so,let her wif her feelings,n u shud understnd her...try 2 overcome it..it will not happen only once...yup...gurls are so..so...sensitive...n jealousy is part of gurls...so,dun take it too seriously...time will heal ur probs..juz convince her that u're not betraying her..ok??i know her..she do love u too...so..so much...so,dun let her trust on u fade k....n the most important things are honesty n understanding..
so...gudluck...dun let her down...ok??
Dear Ed,,
Treat her really nicely,, then everything will be just fine ;)
perempuan kan ala2 manja gitu,,hehs.
[ p/s : nt u kawin i nk jd pengapit k? :P ]
ed tade update ke? LOL.
heh. now you know women are from venus..
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